Happy Medicine

 :)) He seems to know well what are the differences between “like” and “love”. So lovely! :* Wanna bite his chubby cheeks! :))

My best friend crazily loves the Bee Gees version but I also like Take That… And this:

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For a lazy sunday!

Ingredients:

200 gr spaghetti

100 gr strip bacon

1 egg

100 ml milk or whipping cream

Grated parmesan

1 tbsp olive oil

1/2 clove garlic

Salt, ground black pepper

Dry oregano and basil

Method:

 How good! Really GREAT!

I used to love having daughters more than sons but i started to rethink when I see what happened to my cousins, especially yesterday.

My cousin came to my house and brought some cans of beer. She got sad NOT because she broke up with her recent boy some days ago but because she heard that her ex-boyfriend (before the recent boy) had a girl friend who is “pretty, 1m63 tall and 2 years older than him” :D. That guy is my brother’s close friend and seems very loyal. He used to continuously present my cousin flowers all 6 months long after they broke up, even when she got another boyfriend. then he gave up when he didn’t receive any sign of being moved from her…

She started to cry and drank beer. I said “you can cry but don’t drink. Don’t break you stomach.” Anyway when I was in the bathroom to take a shower, she almost finished three cans and got drunk. I jumped to her to take the third can and threw into the rubbish bin. I took her to my bed to rest but she threw all my pillows, my hugging pillow and my loved teddy bear into the floor!!! She almost threw my laptop down before I snatched it and put on the table. She took her phone and called the guy to make him worried. He drove to my house and stayed in the rain outside and then talked to me in the phone until I made sure that she was ok then he came back home. haizza!

Later she leaned her head on my knee. When I hugged her and stroked her hair, she started to speak like a radio reporter:

- Thủy ơi, i like you stroking my hair

- Uhm

- Thủy ơi, why dare he forget me and fall in love with a girl who is “pretty, 1m63 tall and 2 years older than him” ?

- Because you forgot him first. But it’s not your fault ’cause you did your best as your heart and your head told you.

- Do you feel disappointed with me?

- Yes. But I love you and I don’t want you to be suffering.

- Do you still love anh Avin?

- Who is he? (=D)

- The one’s name means “not good” í! bad í! ah, evil.

- It’s not his name.

- Who do you love more? anh Avin or anh “…” ?

- The two names are one person. (:D)

(God bless me! I told her too much! Two years ago, my brother and she used to call that name “Underwear” to more easily remember. akak).

- Thủy ơi, I am sad!

- Uhm

- Do you act like me if the person you love has another girl?

- No. Never. If I have to cry for that I will cry alone. Anyway I know you. You don’t love him anymore. You just feel lost because you always think he’s yours but now he’s not anymore. Now you just need time to rest. Don’t be hurried. When you are calm again you will see what you should do.

- No I love him. I want to hold him back. Why dare he love a “pretty, 1m63 tall and two-years-older-than-him” girl?

- If he doesn’t love you anymore. Don’t try to hold him back. He will look down on you and even if he stays, you won’t be happy anymore. I can forget the person very quickly if i have a feeling that he doesn’t care about me anymore because I know well that it doesn’t deserve my sadness. Wait until you are more calm to act. If it is a fate that he is yours then finally he will be yours. If it’s not, even though you try hard, he will finally leave you.

- But I am afraid its too late. and I will have to regret.

- One week or two weeks of waiting to be calmer doesn’t affect love. Love is a long way.

…

- Does he love you? What will you do if he falls in love with another girl?

- If he feels happy and I can’t do anything I want for him, I will feel happy for him.

- No. You have to to fight to have him.

- …

- Do you love me?

- Yes. Very much.

- I love you too. You are a good mother. I will get married with you! (!!!)

- Uhm. I will do it if you go to bed and sleep. Tomorrow you will feel better.

…

But she didn’t sleep. She kept talking a bit before I called a taxi to take her and her sister back home ’cause they left the house carelessly locked and their parents were not home. Haizza. I always love to have daughters, prefer daughters to sons, since I think to bring up sons to make them good is more difficult than doing so with girls. Moreover I want to read books for them, teach them playing music, make up and dress up daughters when they are growing :). But now, I think i will feel very painful and sad if i have to see my girls suffering from love or doing unproper things because of love. Girls are now very different from ones in my generation. they really need more care and also love from their parents, their relatives in a way they feel that they are talking to a special friend.

It seems not less tiring to bring up daughters if you are not well prepared and subtle enough.

Don’t leave my hand and hold another hand! Even when I said so, I never wanted it to happen! I was just not confident!

Think about me and believe me!

The whole world can think we are mad but we can make a miracle!

Tháng tám mùa thu
Lá khởi vàng em nhỉ
Từ độ người đi thương nhớ âm thầm

Chiều vào thu nghe lời ru gió
Nắng vàng lơ lửng ngoài hiên
Mắt nai đen mùa thu Hà Nội
Nghe lòng ấm lại tuổi phong sương

May mà có em cho đường phố vui
May còn chút em trang sức sông Hồng
Một sáng vào thu bềnh bồng hương cốm
Đường Cổ Ngư xưa bắt bước phiêu bồng

thôi thì có em đời ta hy vọng
Thôi thì có em sương khói môi mềm
Có phải em mùa thu Hà Nội
Nghe đâu đây lá ướt và mi xanh
Nghe đâu đây hồn Trưng Vương sông Hát
Lững thững Hồ Tây một dáng Kiều
Có phải em mùa thu Hà Nội
Nghìn năm sau níu bóng quay về
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Sometimes right after you do a thing, you have a feeling that you will fail.

I really lose belief in myself!

Sighs!

. I hurt a person today because of my sensitiveness. After all bad and painful experience I’ve had I see I become more and more sensitive now :’( I am afraid of everything and ready to fight anyone. How can I change the situation? How can I turn back time to remove all bad impression I had in my mind?

. It’s today, I also realize that how much i love my parents… I can’t make them sad…

Thuy relax…

When i saw the smart-looking and lovely little girl get surprised and said “thank you”, I knew I’d done a right thing. Maybe God let me directly do it instead of another as I intended. forever goodbye my foolish time.

The end of one thing is always a start of something new!

I feel totally released!

Not many notice my feet and very few recognize how special (ugly) the toes are :D. I like the name they were called: “hobbit” feet

Anyway to me, they are very nice and beautiful, like the person who have them

Just back from the holidays. feel tired but really relax and found one thing: good-looking men like to stare at me :)) Anyway only the man i need likes staring at me is enough :}

I have a big question: what makes a man like a woman?

why do you like/love me?

What are the differences between like and love? Is it difficult for some men to speak it out?

Miss miss miss very much!

Another good book for my kids has been contributed to the big library I will have and dream of :P. I always dream about one day when I can read for my lovely kids good books which can tell them in gentle and mild ways how to live right and become benevolent people. There are many books sold in book shops nowadays but not many good new books for children are found. This book made me feel touched for simple but very humane things which teach people to love and respect ones who are different from us. The beautiful story was written under the eyes of a person who has a great love with kids so it is full of lovely situations about kids’ expression and the process they are growing up which is wrapped in the story about a seagull and cats. Very lovely and sweet! Love it and love to think about my children too. How will they look like?